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Healing Your Sense of Self

8/8/2020

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How to Love & Accept Myself

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You are not an accident. God created you on purpose and for a purpose. If you are struggling with accepting and loving yourself, please continue reading. 

God is not mad at you. He loves you and created you to be in relationship with him. God is concerned about what you are concerned about and wants to help in every area of your life. He wants to bring healing to your sense of self. 

Self-rejection is self-focus or self-absorption displayed by disapproving, despising, hating, disdaining, and/or spurning self; being engrossed with all my negatives (either real or imagined).

We know we are struggling with self-rejection when our lives are marked by:
  • poor self-esteem.
  • self-accusation, condemnation and/or false guilt.
  • feelings of inferiority and/or inadequacy.
  • fear, dread, anxiety and/or worry.
  • feeling like or believing “I am a failure.”
  • negativity and/or pessimism.
  • often feeling sad, grieved, sorrowful and/or depressed.
  • despair, hopelessness, helplessness.
  • self-abuse through abusive use of alcohol, drugs, food or tobacco or cutting, hitting or mutilating self.
  • suicidal thoughts, words and/or actions.​​
​On the other side of the coin — Pride is self-focus on all my positives and is displayed by conceit, haughtiness, arrogance, and or self-confidence; and/or usually looking to my own best interest and desires without considering those of others.

Surprisingly, pride is usually rooted in the fear of rejection.

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​We know we are struggling with pride when our lives are marked by:
  • egotism, haughtiness, arrogance.
  • feeling driven to achieve and/or perform.
  • competitive attitudes in most areas of life.
  • independence and/or self-reliance.
  • isolation and/or withdrawal.
  • self-righteousness and/or self-justification.
  • judgment and/or criticism of others.
  • self pity.
  • covetousness, envy, jealousy, and/or possessiveness.
  • manipulation.
  • perfectionism.
  • worship of self, narcissism.

Here's How to Get Over It

  1. Understand that God loves you
  2. Identify why you struggle to love and accept yourself
  3. Receive God's love instead of trying to perform
  4. Sign up to take this class for free

Pruning for Fruitfulness

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These classes help us understand areas in which we often struggle and have trouble, to which we can apply the principles learned in the previousclasses to gain healing and freedom. ​

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In this class you will learn the truth about why we were created and what we're doing here on earth. You will come to understand how shame, guilt and condemnation enter our lives and how to get out from under it. And you will receive instructional, step-by-step prayers to begin the healing process.

​It's free! What have you got to lose?? 
  1. Sign up
  2. Watch the video 
  3. Download the workbook
  4. Pray the prayers
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    Author: Valerie Bixler

    Valerie's life mission is to know God and make him known. She and her husband minister in Colorado Springs.

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